By Amy Williams

If you have been chosen to be a best man or a maid/matron of honor at a wedding or if you are a father of the bride or groom, you are likely going to be expected to toast the happy couple with an inspiring wedding speech. This can be something simple for some who are used to public speaking or who enjoy the limelight, but it can seem like a nightmare waiting to happen to someone who gets nervous speaking in front of crowds.

A few things to consider in the midst of this wedding planning include at least an outline of what you plan to speak about. It is always better to have something prepared rather than try to “wing it” at such an important occasion. There is nothing wrong with keeping the speech short and sweet, but you should include some heartfelt sentiment in the toast. Most toasts include some sort of stories about the bride, groom or the two together. This is great; especially if there is a bit of humor involved…just remember to leave out any mention of previous relationships. Be sure to end your story or speech with well wishes for the couple and some thought out feelings that come directly from your heart. This speech is likely to be remembered by the couple and to touch the couple forever. Good luck!